Comments on: choose your friends wisely https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=choose-your-friends-wisely Tue, 30 Jan 2007 21:51:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: the insider https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12781 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 21:51:23 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12781 Wen.. lol. good point I suppose.

Grampa.. Um.. raging out a bit today, lol?

]]> By: grampa https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12778 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 20:19:12 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12778 Be done. Close your eyes, imagine her sliding under a gas truck and tasting her own blood, scream Die! a couple of times and then never think about her again.

]]> By: wendykat https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12777 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 20:19:03 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12777 i think you can be done now. she’s not going to tell you why she’s a dumb bitch, but at least now you know she is…

]]> By: the insider https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12743 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 14:21:30 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12743 And she responded:

I have no excuse or reason for my bad behavior and Im very sorry. You have every right to be mad and every right to hate me and never want to see me again. Please know whatever happens in the future you were a dear friend to me and I know by me saying sorry is not enough.

Personally, I really like how she doesn’t tell me why.

Do I have to respond to this or can I be done now?

]]> By: the insider https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12673 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 00:15:09 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12673 Grampa.. I realize I didn’t cause it, but something that happened had to have caused this, and I really wonder why.

No matter. I responded:

See, here’s the issue. It’s not that you jumped to conclusions or made assumptions—you knowingly lied to me and about me for months. I have no idea why, or what purpose it served for you, but you did it so let’s not quibble about the truth. I talked with you, asking you to set her straight. I discussed my allergy. I emailed you and we talked about it. There’s no way you didn’t know the truth.

Honest to god, it appears that we were never friends in the first place. That’s not a “friendly” thing to do.

I am stunned and truly saddened. I cannot believe you did something like that to me for so long and for no reason.

I’m hoping that does it. I really don’t ever want to deal with it again.

]]> By: grampa https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12651 Mon, 29 Jan 2007 18:09:13 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12651 1. Stop trying to figure out what you did wrong, as you didn’t. Her callousness is not something that you caused, so don’t worry about it.

2. You should absolutely respond to her, whether you have it in you or not. Don’t ignore this and hope that it will go away. Send her an email, acknowledge her response, tell her that you no longer want to be friends and ask her not to contact you again. You don’t have to be spiteful or mean-spirited about it, but you do need to do it to give yourself closure.

3. As to why she lied, she probably wanted to feel important, or likes to gossip, or was jealous that some boy she had feelings for liked you so she did what she thought would make that boy not like you anymore. Whatever her reasons, they’re her shit so let it be. If you pick up someone else’s shit, you deserve it. My advice is that you let her wallow in it and walk away clean.

]]> By: the insider https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12634 Mon, 29 Jan 2007 14:25:07 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12634 I’m vacillating with that. He and I were never good friends, and since I don’t want to deal with him “pressing her case,” so to speak, I doubt I’ll keep in touch.

And lol, will do. 😉

]]> By: wendykat https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12631 Mon, 29 Jan 2007 13:34:38 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12631 i wouldn’t bother responding to her. just cut her out of your life. if you are still friends with the guy then just hang out with him without her, it may be difficult, but perhaps he’ll understand. i don’t know.

give me her address… i’m back in march. i’ll do the job then.

]]> By: The Sister https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12603 Mon, 29 Jan 2007 03:41:31 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12603 I’m sorry! When i met her i would never have thought she would do this. The only good thing from it is that you found out now rather than later on. The bad part is that you have no idea what else she has lied about and what she has lied to others about.
On a positive note Porkchop should be home now so you should be warmer when you sleep. 🙂
Call me later if you want, love you!!

]]> By: the insider https://theinsideofmylife.com/2007/01/choose-your-friends-wisely/#comment-12586 Sun, 28 Jan 2007 18:48:27 +0000 http://theinsideofmylife.com/?p=506#comment-12586 I guess the issue is that I don’t really have it in me to respond.. mainly because I know that this is just another lie.

And to be honest, I’m almost positive that he yelled at her and so she’s doing this to prove something to him.

So no matter what I say, she will lie about it.

That being said, I have no idea how to respond, or even if I want too.

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